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(Alcohol) That girl, who I can't even remember her last name transferred to another school and I don't really care about her so I didn't try to find her. I was no good and did not perform at that time. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments that appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will be removed. I had 1 one night stand and it wasn't even memorable for me. When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here. I love her very much, but can’t get the images out of my mind. I don’t know if I should give her a second chance. I have been 100% loyal to her and saw her as my future wife and the mother of my kids. She even installed a spy app on her phone that emails me a log of her calls. She now knows that wasn’t true and deeply regrets what she did, and wants to put things right and see a therapist. I think she did it in revenge because her friends told her I had had an affair. M y girlfriend of two years recently had a one-night stand.

Wife had one night stand